Sometimes I wonder, what if… things happened differently or some things never happened. Would I be happier?
What is happiness in the first place?
Is it having a lot of money or being promoted in your job?
or is it being loved by the person you really love? But what if… you are just
a regular employee with an average salary and got married to someone just for
the sake of being married… ARE YOU HAPPY?
Would you be happy if you get the promotion or acknowledgement from your boss by making other people look bad or not doing their job right? Would you be happy by manipulating or playing the feelings of the people who loves you, so that you can prove to the world that you are love? Would you be happy by spreading bad rumors to someone just so you can elevate your self-worth?
So many questions but no definite answer…
Correct me if I’m wrong but for me happiness is just having this feeling of satisfaction, that although you didn’t have the most glamorous high paying job, or you haven’t found the other half of your soul, you still feel this force or excitement in facing each day.
“LIFE doesn’t have to be perfect for you to be happy, you should be happy knowing the imperfections of LIFE.”
By accepting the fact that not everything you want is meant for you to have, then you will realize that God choose something for you that is better, much suitable
for you. You might not like it at first, but sooner or later you will see the grand design God has plotted for you.
I learned this the hard way, I thought that being with someone completes or defines my
life… I thought I already achieved my self-actualization. And when that person walks out, I thought that there’s no point in living… And then reality hits me… Although the person, job, or things that I really want slipped out of my grasp… It’s not the end of the world… There’s so many things to look forward to… There are so many things that Life has to offer… It’s just up for me to unveil and search those things that will make my life more meaningful.
“Never let someone be the measurement of your own happiness.”
So now I wonder… what is the grand design God has plotted for me? What makes me